Structure—from bones to days to writing

A couple of years ago I was diagnosed with osteoporosis, a disorder in which the bones become increasingly porous and brittle. My skeletal structure is more subject to breakage than others who don’t have this condition. A small seashell I keep on the windowsill next to my kitchen writing table reminds me of my “lacy” bones, and to take good care of my physical architecture—take the medication, do weight-bearing exercises, use caution with certain yoga poses.

As for structuring my days, one of the greatest takeaways I got from participating in Creative Mastermind groups with Dan Blank, is the idea of “time-blocking.” Time blocking is how I can structure the parts of my day when I don’t have a regularly scheduled obligation. If I want to work on a new project—block out the time, if I want to write a blog—block out the time. Design a new workshop, prepare a class, study a book—block out the time. Time blocking works. Especially if you do it! (I’m still working on this one, Dan.) (PS Dan is starting a new group July 1. Go here to find out more.)

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“How we spend our days is, of course, how we our lives.”

It’s just past 6 o’clock in the evening. I’m having what I call my “happy hour coffee.” Today, the Friday of Memorial Day Weekend, we finally got a full day of sun in San Diego and my coffee is iced.

I’m still wearing my yoga clothes from my morning yoga practice which happened somewhere around 9 am. The only time I’ve gone out of the house today was when Rocky, my neighbors’/landlords’ dog, came up for his morning treat. We have to go outside on the porch for our morning ritual now because I’m kitty-sitting my sister’s two cats and I’m not sure what all three critters might think of each other, so I’m taking no chances.

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When dipping a madeleine in tea isn’t enough

One of the challenges in writing memoir about times long ago, is that memory fades, diminishes, wavers, and sometimes simply disappears and details fall by the wayside.

In any story the specificity of detail can not only make the scene come alive, but also brings “authority” to the author. In writing fiction, we can make the details up. Close your eyes, see a scene, and write the details. But in memoir, crafting detail can be challenging, especially when writing from memory of times many years, even decades ago.

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